media update

Oct. 8th, 2025 01:17 pm
omens: a red tree (JIM - red tree)
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Okay, it's been... a long time.. since I've done a media update. Oops! Haven't had much to talk about but I guess it's all added up enough to be enough by now.


Some books:

The Lower Decks book, Warp Your Own Way by Ryan North (comics novel) - read this twice, need to read a few more times :D (It's a choose your adventure book)

Doppelganger by Naomi Klein (non-fiction) - didn't get through this before the library yoinked it back (I had it largely thru my couple discord listening challenge weeks, whoops), put myself back on the list. Pretty interesting, kinda awful.

Somewhere Beyond the Sea, TJ Klune (fiction, sequel) - reading this in bits. As much as these are "cozy fantasy," only the relationships are. The plot and background ambiance is upsetting, in general, lol.


Couple Kdramas:

Doctor Cha - do not waste your time on this one! We made it through but it fought us almost the entire time. LOL I appreciate [personal profile] pikron so much in these times XD oooof tease an imminent divorce in the first couple eps, spend the entire series making the husband irredeemable and then only have the divorce in the LAST EPISODE?? Ughhh we were suffering. Props to minor character Jeon Sora for being a tiny bright light. And the actor Kim Mi-kyung (who played the main character's mother), who is ALWAYS excellent.

Business Proposal - CHARMING. Do recommend! Very silly! We are only four or five episodes in, so this might change, but we are enjoying it a lot. It does a lot of stupid special effects stuff & musical things that should be obnoxious but are somehow only charming. These dorks are mfeo. It's so enjoyable we have much less to talk about than in Doctor Cha, though LOL.


Some games:

Sims4 (computer) I spent a week and a half or so playing this. It got too much time out of me. I think it actually isn't very fun? But it is incredibly absorbing. I will probably get sucked in again at some point.

Meow Tower (mobile) - they added more puzzles and a new music box thing.

Word Trails (mobile, thru Netflix) - still doing this ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Animal Crossing: New Leaf (3ds) - I restarted on a whim and am enjoying it. I like how the villagers are more unpredictable but I do not like when they shame me for playing too long :P


Writing & other creative things:

I have been writing, here and there! and a couple new ideas, which is fun. And crocheting! I've been working on a blanket for Kelly and speeding along with these granny squares until I got to the biggest colour chunk and now I'm like ehhhhhhhhhhhhh. Gotta do it!


That's it for me, aside from language learning stuff!

characters20in20 Round 19

Oct. 7th, 2025 10:30 am
reeby10: grey scale voldemort from shoulders up with a crown doodle above his head (harry potter)
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Link: Round 19 Sign Ups | Round 19 Themes

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Schedule: Round 19 sign ups are open NOW. Icons are due October 27, 2025.

re: Living in Sin

Oct. 6th, 2025 09:04 am
merridia: (Goodnight Betsy.)
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Another weekend in which I accomplished absolutely nothing around the house is done and gone, back to work! I got all caught up on my Stories, at least (wrestling). The ChocoPro/Mystery Wrestling joint show was a particular delight. Also went to the movies last night (Dwayne finally did a real acting!!), and when I got out of the theatre I had two whole comments on the first piece of fic I've posted in two years, which honestly made my night, so all in all it was a pretty good weekend. Now I've just got to do all of the real stuff that I should have been doing instead. Laundry, and manicures and whatnot.

The temperature fell below zero for the first time this morning, and while the weather forecasts have threatened snow a few times now, it either never manifested or didn't stick around long enough for me to see it, which doesn't count. The last vestiges of the two-week wonder that is fall are clinging on for at least a few more hours, so I'm going to take that as a win.

Feeling a bit of inexplicable anxiety today. Hopefully a Monday Mystery Movie after work will help (and that mom will be feeling up to it this time). I think it's gonna be Roofman?

13. Should Couples Live Together Before Marriage?

lol yes, fucking obviously. Most of the time, they should just skip the last part, too.

October Movies: The Smashing Machine, The Fly, Sorcerer, Gladiator

Roads go ever on by eethok (SFW)

Oct. 6th, 2025 01:10 am
mific: (dragon's eye)
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Fandom: Tolkien: Lord of the Rings
Characters/Pairing/Other Subject: Aragorn, Boromir, Legolas, Gandalf, Gimli, Merry, Pippin, Sam, Frodo
Content Notes/Warnings: none
Medium: digital art
Artist on DW/LJ: n/a
Artist Website/Gallery: eethok on tumblr
Why this piece is awesome: Eethok specializes in medieval manuscript-style art, which is perfect to depict the Fellowship setting off on their quest. The details are great and there's a lot packed in - including unlikely-looking wargs, Bill the pony, the gates to Moria (and the lake monster), Smaug in the sky, and Sauron's eye. The border is fantastic, as well. Lovely!
Link: Roads go ever on

It Get’s Better?

Oct. 5th, 2025 12:06 am
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Posted by Frank

To: “frank” <frank@postsecret.com>
Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2025
Subject: “it gets better”

Hi Frank,

Sorry to bother you. I was just wondering if, among the sea of “it gets better” sentiments, there are people who acknowledge that sometimes it doesn’t? My failed attempt was 29 years ago and it has not in fact gotten better. I tried so hard for such a long time to get better and be happy, but every year that passes leaves me more and more hopeless. But I’ve never seen anyone express this sentiment.

Everyone insists sunshine and rainbows and self-actualization are all just around the bend. I never express my hopeless sentiment because I don’t want to ruin anyone else’s happiness. Are the others like me just doing what I’m doing, keeping quiet so as not to burden anyone else? Or am I the only one?

I feel like the only one.

I’m so lonely and hopeless and exhausted and I would love to know if there are people out there who also know that “it gets better” isn’t always true. 

~~~

From: Frank Warren <frank@postsecret.com>
Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2025
Subject: Re: “it gets better”

I do get some of those secrets, I will try to post a few more. 

In the meantime, I’ll share your message on social media tomorrow. We can watch the responses you get. 

Thanks for your message, but mail me a postcard. 🙂

Cheers,
-Frank

~~~

“Finally! Someone telling it like it really is. Thank you brave person!
Sending you love.”

[View 2,000 more responses on Facebook and Instagram.]

“Oh man… You are so not alone. I wish I had something profound to say.”

“Hi there, not alone. Thank you for putting what I feel into words.”

“You’re definitely not alone on this one. I’ve been trying to survive one day at a time for more than a decade.”

“Can I just give you all a hug and let you know you are seen? And I
hope you choose to stay?”

“I felt this in my soul.”

~~~

To: “frank” <frank@postsecret.com>
Sent: Sunday, September 30, 2025
Subject: “it gets better”

What an incredible gift you’ve given me. You could have replied with a simple answer (which I also would have appreciated so much), but instead you gave me a front-row seat to witness the answer unfold in real time. You simultaneously showed me the view from your huge platform while also shielding me with the safety of anonymity.

I’ve read every single comment and am floored at how many others are out there feeling the same as me. For so long I’ve felt so insubstantial, like I could fall in the water and not make a single ripple. This experience made me feel like a real human person who is allowed to feel actual connection to other humans. I don’t have the words for how grateful I am. 

Thank you so much for giving me the experience of hundreds of messages in bottles washing up on my shore. 

~~~

“Sometimes ‘it doesn’t get worse’ is ok too.”

“I found ‘just take another breath’ more useful than ‘it gets better’.” And I did…

“It hasn’t gotten better for me. I’m in pain every single day. It never
ends. But sometimes I find a cool book to read or a game to play, and I’ll want to find out what happens next. So I’m still here.”

“My moto is ‘oh no, it’s tomorrow again’. So you’re definitely not the odd one out.”

~~~

From: Frank Warren <frank@postsecret.com>
Sent: Sunday, September 30, 2025
Subject: Re: “it gets better”

PostSecret has shared a secret with me, over and over – no one is alone with their secret.

Your post was seen by over a million people and I know many of them found solace discovering that they were not alone with their secret.

Thanks for being brave enough to speak our story.

Be well,
-Frank

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The Museum of Us

Sep. 29th, 2025 12:01 am
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Posted by Frank

See the postcards on exhibition at the Museum of Us.

Get free passes to see the exhibition plus a signed proof from the first PostSecret book and join the community by becoming a ‘PostSecret Partner’ on Patreon. Details

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re: Boredom

Oct. 3rd, 2025 09:03 am
merridia: (I'll have a chocolate choo-choo.)
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A real TGI sort of F today. I STILL haven't watched Dynamite, I just keep getting so sleepy after supper and flaking out. Cannot wait to stop coughing already! Hopefully I can do some catching up on stuff over the weekend, even though 48 hours remains a comically short amount of time in which to do ANYTHING.

Trying to watch more movies again this month.

Also trying not to lose my shit on incompetent salespeople today. Why is it so hard to understand that you can't sell a vehicle if the frame is literally rotted through???

12. How Do You Deal With Boredom?

I just... find something to do? There is always so much to do! Boredom is much less of a problem in my life now than it was in my youth. Sometimes I get into one of those moods where I don't want to do anything, or when I want to do something, but I just... don't? And just sit there and stare at things for a while before I get moving again? But those don't really feel like boredom to me.

October Movies: Sorcerer, Gladiator

re: Organization

Oct. 2nd, 2025 09:47 am
merridia: (no. it is u.)
[personal profile] merridia
Tired after a bit of a waste of a night, but it was a waste in which I got to go see Gladiator on the big screen, which was pretty rad. We lost something as a society when we moved fully away from classic movie scores that just sound like movie music. Like, don't get me wrong, I'll go bananas over a Challengers or a Tron: Ares any day, and I'm still thinking about whatever the hell One Battle After Another was doing with its music, but there's really just something to be said for letting somebody like Hans Zimmer go absolutely apeshit with an orchestra and calling it a day, and I feel like we're losing that because it seems old-fashioned. There's room for both in the world!!

Made the plunge and finally bought myself some Dreamwidth paid time after many years. It's... quite expensive, isn't it? Considering I really only missed having more icon options. Still, it's a good service that is worth supporting, in spite of the gut-punch of an exchange rate right now. Now where do I feed pictures of wrestlers and get perfect icons spit back out?

11. How Productive and Organized Are You?

lol

I TRY, OKAY???

October Movies: Gladiator

the all out toronto diaries 2/10

Oct. 1st, 2025 09:52 am
merridia: (He does sleep!)
[personal profile] merridia
Came home last night to the dog's collar sitting sadly on the entrance table. Sad day all around! Apparently the procedure went really well, though, she was happy and calm (after a bit of anxiety in the van) and got to eat lots of garbage that she normally was not allowed to touch. Probably had the best day out of all of us. Today is gloomy and cold and rainy and dark, but it's October, so hopefully the fresh start will do us all well (we lost all of our pets in three of the last four Septembers, yeesh). This is the first time in my entire life that I have not had a pet in the house, which is very odd to think about. We'll get cats again, but not for a little while, I think. Need to just... take a bit of time.

I was sort of a mental mess yesterday; spent most of it inexplicably thinking it was Wednesday, then packed all my shit up and turned off my computer at the end of the day like it was Friday? Then fell asleep at, like, 9pm and slept straight through the night, full of grief pasta. Maybe I was just overtired? Let's go, October!

A short post for the shortest match on the All Out card, REWATCH CONTINUES:

Eddie Kingston vs. Big Bill )

Almost bought $100 worth of cute wrestling merch again but held off because of the postal strike. Then again, I've already got a few things in the wind, what's a bit more??
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Birdfeeding

Oct. 1st, 2025 01:46 am
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[community profile] birdfeeding is a community started on January 1, 2023. It's all about birdfeeding, birdwatching, and other topics relating to birds. It also touches on nature in general, and observations that may effect bird activity such as local weather. Both text and image posts are welcome.

Community resources include posts about birding events, nurseries that sell seeds or plants attractive to birds, bird identification apps, the benefits of birdwatching, and other useful materials. Check out the anchor posts from Three Weeks for Dreamwidth.


Recent posts:

Holiday Activities

Climate Change

September Garden Tasks
mific: (RWRB)
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Fandom: Red White and Royal Blue (RWRB)
Characters/Pairing/Other Subject: Henry/Alex
Content Notes/Warnings: none
Medium: digital art
Artist on DW/LJ: n/a
Artist Website/Gallery: sagedrewthis on tumblr
Why this piece is awesome: Gorgeous colours and a cute pumpkin-flavoured pic, as we're edging into October.
Link: happy Halloween

[493] we are so cool, so normal

Sep. 30th, 2025 09:57 am
merridia: (Believe to my soul.)
[personal profile] merridia
Gonna be a sad sort of day. Said goodbye to Little Bear this morning, because she won't be there when I get home. Looked at a bunch of pictures of her when she was a puppy last night and cried a lot, so hopefully I can keep it together well enough at work.

Yesterday marked one year without my Bub, so mood was already low, and then mom bailed on the Monday mystery movie because she wasn't feeling well, so I just rewatched last week's Dynamite to boost my spirits instead. I do genuinely think it might be one of my favourite episodes ever? Between the old man yaoi, Hangman's cow gear and Lee Moriarty officially taking over as the Pittsburgh local hero (the doctor is OUT), FTR continuing to be some of my favourite heels in the company (saying Beth has a microbrawler head is hilarious I'M SORRY LET WILLOW FIGHT THEM), the women's tag title announcement, Orange's return, and Statlander ending the night with main event Mina and a motherfucking FLAMETHROWER, the whole thing just felt like it was booked for me personally, like a fun little post-PPV present. Very much what I needed.

I need to get my shit together and put together a stockpile of change so that I can start taking the bus and go to the movies on my own; they revamped our terrible transit system after many years so (if it all works as it's supposed to) I can theoretically now just hop on a bus and get all the way across town in about forty minutes, including the transfer. Game changer!

Okay, back to random videos of Edge and Christian playing real small in the corner of my screen while I pretend to be gainfully employed and avoid feelings about anything real:



Album #493/1001: Holger Czukay - Movies )

She was a good dog.

the all out toronto diaries 1/10

Sep. 29th, 2025 10:44 am
merridia: (Default)
[personal profile] merridia
As I've been threatening to do for a week now, I have started watching All Out back, and I WILL be posting through it! Or at least just amassing a bunch of dumb stray thoughts after each match while I'm at work the next day??? My throat feels bad, but I do feel a lot better aside from that and I'm actually getting some work done again, so I've earned it!

Anyway, the show opener was probably the one I will have the most to say about!!!

Adam Copeland & Christian Cage vs. FTR )

P.S.: One Battle After Another is really good and should be seen on the biggest screen you have access to!!!